When The Good Son Is The Bad Son, and The Bad Son Is The Good Son
Matthew 21.28-31 asks, what do you think? There was a man who had two sons.

The child who does what we ask without arguing is a blessing and a rarity. The child who negotiates what he is asked to do with complaining and arguing is the norm. In the end, our ‘good’ child is the one who does what they are asked regardless of their attitude in getting it done. While their character no doubt needs some work, we usually measure behavior by what gets done.