1 John 2:3–6 (NIV) We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did.
Too many men claim the name “Christian” while living a life that tells the world they serve themselves, not God. Salvation by grace through faith is not a ticket to keep living the same rebellious life that nailed Jesus to the cross. It is not simply asking God to “improve” your life — it is a surrender of your life to His Lordship.
We don’t add God to our schedule like a gym membership. God becomes the reason we get out of bed.
Obeying God is loving God. The two cannot be separated. Grace is not a license for apathy — it is God’s power in you to live in obedience. Faith is trusting that Jesus’ sacrifice paid for every sin you’ve committed; grace is God giving you His Spirit so you can walk in holiness, even in a culture that rewards compromise.
Jesus’ standard for His men is crystal clear:
“Teach them to obey everything I have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:20)
If you claim Christ but live in willful disobedience, Scripture says you’re lying. Your life reveals whether you truly know Him. God is holy, righteous, and pure — and His men must love those qualities and pursue them.
This is why brothers in Christ must gather — not just to socialize, but to study, sharpen, and hold one another accountable. We need each other to stay in the fight, to keep applying God’s commands, to pray for strength when we’re weak, and to ask forgiveness when we fall.
Men of God are on a journey toward the eternal kingdom. Our Father is shaping us into the image of His Son, who perfectly obeyed Him. And if Jesus — the perfect Son — lived in obedience, so must we, His adopted sons.
This isn’t about legalism. It’s about loyalty. It’s about loving the One who saved you enough to live for Him.
Questions for Men to Consider:
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If obedience is the proof of knowing God, what does your life say right now?
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Where have you been tolerating sin instead of killing it?
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Who are the brothers that know you well enough to call you out when you’re off track?
