(1 Ti) 4:7, 11-12, 15-16 CJB “But refuse godless bubbe-meises, and exercise yourself in godliness. Command these things and teach them. Don’t let anyone look down on you because of your youth; on the contrary, set the believers an example in your speech, behavior, love, trust and purity. Be diligent about this work, throw yourself into it, so that your progress may be clear to everyone. Pay attention to yourself and to the teaching, continue in it, for by so doing you will deliver both yourself and those who hear you.”
When people decide to become physically fit, they usually follow a plan.
They establish goals.
They change their habits.
They measure their progress.
They keep training even when growth feels slow.
But what is our plan for becoming spiritually fit?
Many Christian men want to grow in faith, lead their families well, and make an eternal difference. Yet desire without discipline rarely produces maturity.
Godliness requires intentional training. “But refuse godless superstition, and exercise yourself in godliness.” —1 Timothy 4:7 CJB
God’s goal is not merely that we become more religious, knowledgeable, or respectable.
His purpose is to conform us to the image of His Son.
Godliness means increasingly becoming like Jesus in our:
- Character
- Commitment
- Commission
Exercise Yourself in Godliness Through Christlike Character
Paul told Timothy: “Set the believers an example in your speech, behavior, love, trust and purity.”
Timothy was not merely supposed to teach people what a Christian should believe.
He was to show them what a Christian life should look like.
His speech mattered.
His conduct mattered.
His love mattered.
His faithfulness mattered.
His purity mattered.
Christian leadership begins with example.
A man cannot consistently lead others where he refuses to go himself.
Jesus perfectly revealed the character of God. He was loving, humble, pure, truthful, compassionate, courageous, and righteous.
To grow in godliness is to have those same qualities increasingly formed within us by the Holy Spirit.
We should regularly ask:
- Are my words becoming more gracious and truthful?
- Is my behavior becoming more Christlike?
- Am I growing in love?
- Am I becoming more trustworthy?
- Am I guarding my purity?
Godliness should become visible.
Paul told Timothy to throw himself into this work so that his progress would be clear to everyone.
Perfection will not be visible in this life.
But progress should be.
Train Yourself for Obedient Commitment
Paul also told Timothy: “Command these things and teach them.”
Timothy was not free to reshape God’s truth to make it more comfortable or culturally acceptable.
He was responsible to teach it faithfully and obey it personally.
Jesus demonstrated perfect commitment to the Father.
He said: “My food is to do what the one who sent me wants and to bring his work to completion.” —John 4:34 CJB
Jesus always did what pleased His Father.
His obedience continued through rejection, suffering, and ultimately death on the cross.
As His disciples, we are not called to selective obedience.
We do not obey only the commands we understand, enjoy, or find convenient.
Jesus said: “If you love me, you will keep my commands.” —John 14:15 CJB
Growing in godliness means growing in submission to the Word of God.
The question is not simply, “What does Scripture say?”
The deeper question is, “Will I obey what Scripture says?”
Train for the Mission of Jesus
Paul told Timothy: “Be diligent about this work, throw yourself into it.”
What work?
Timothy was responsible to teach sound doctrine, model godly living, protect the church from error, and help believers mature in Christ.
His growth was never intended to stop with himself.
Jesus came to seek and save the lost.
He gave His life as a ransom for many.
He then commanded His followers to make disciples of all nations.
The Great Commission is not merely the responsibility of missionaries, pastors, or ministry professionals.
It is the mission of every Christian.
We are called to help people:
- Come to faith in Jesus.
- Grow in obedience to Jesus.
- Become more like Jesus.
- Help others follow Jesus.
Godliness is not spiritual self-improvement.
It is preparation for faithful service.
Measure Your Spiritual Progress
People who are serious about physical fitness measure their progress.
They track:
- Weight
- Strength
- Speed
- Distance
- Endurance
Paul tells Timothy to pay attention to his spiritual progress: “Pay attention to yourself and to the teaching, continue in it.”
Christian men should regularly examine their growth.
Not so we can boast.
Not so we can compare ourselves with others.
But so we can identify where repentance, discipline, and renewed obedience are needed.
Ask yourself:
Character
Am I becoming more like Jesus in my speech, conduct, love, faithfulness, and purity?
Commitment
Am I obeying Scripture more consistently, especially when obedience is difficult?
Commission
Am I helping lost people come to Christ and helping believers grow deeper in Him?
A man can attend church, listen to sermons, and read Christian books while making very little spiritual progress.
Information is not the same as transformation.
God’s Word must be believed, obeyed, and lived.
Continue in It
Paul tells Timothy to continue.
Godliness is not developed through one emotional moment.
It is developed through daily faithfulness.
We continue praying.
We continue studying Scripture.
We continue repenting.
We continue obeying.
We continue serving.
We continue sharing the gospel.
We continue helping others grow.
The Christian life is not a sprint fueled by temporary enthusiasm.
It is lifelong training empowered by the Holy Spirit and directed toward becoming like Jesus.
So refuse distractions.
Reject teaching that pulls you away from truth.
Pay attention to your life.
Pay attention to sound doctrine.
Throw yourself into the work God has given you.
And exercise yourself in godliness.
Run Today’s Play
Ask, where is my lack of spiritual discipline most clearly hindering my growth in Christlike character, obedience, or mission?
Choose one specific spiritual discipline—prayer, Scripture, repentance, obedience, or evangelism—and establish a simple daily plan for practicing it.
Ask a mature Christian man to help you honestly evaluate your progress in character, commitment, and commission.